Terrible two

2 bochhor ki nostalgia-y bhogar pokkhe jotheshto diirgho somoy? ekhon jodi apnader boli aj theke 2 ti Bosonto ar 24 ti puurNima ar ke jane kotoshoto joyar-bhNata age, ek jemontemon Budhbarer sodhyey, amar ghorer secondhand lamp-er mitmite holde alor tolay bose ami bola nei kowa nei Abantor likhte shuru korechhilam, seta ki khub adikhyeta shonabe?

Goto 2 bochhore ja ja ghotlo, phurolo, notun kore shuru holo, “ar jabo na” nakkhot diye kNede phire ese NyaRa abaro Beltolar dike gutiguti hNata lagalo, sesober tatporjo jothartho anudhabon korte hole apekkha kora chhaRa goti nei. aj theke bochhor 25 pore somoy, hoy amar kkhomar ajogyo bhulgulo chokhe angul diye dhoriye debe, noyto pithh chapRe bolbe, “good job.”

Abantor amar dinrattirer kotota gobhhiire daag rekhe gelo, ba adou rekhe gelo kina, seta jante holeo amake apekkha kortei hobe.

Kom se kom 10 bochhor to botei.

Kintu otodin porer kotha bhebe ar jei bNachuk, ami bNachi na. ei muhuurter kotha jodi jigges koren tahole bolbo 2 bochhor ek chhader tolay baas korar poreo, Abantor-er sathe madhuchandrima ekhono phuroyni amar. Abantor ekhono amar ‘Best Friend Forever’.

HNya kichhu ‘compromise’ to thakei. premik-premikara bhaben compromise, adjustment, compatibility esob shokto shokto ingriji shobdo bujhi tNaderi ekchetiya. kintu seta sotyi noy. Abantor-er patay notun mukh dekhle saradin mon bhalo thake jemon, temni 7 din post na korle ‘stats’ check korte giye buk durdur kore. ke jane, sobai chole gechhe bujhi.

Ar 5 ta somporker motoi, ei somporkotao amake ‘vulnerable’ kore chheRechhe.

Kintu ami tate ghabRachchhi na motei. karoN Sugata achhen, Sumana achhe, Mohor, Raka, Bong mom, Ru, Sohini sobai achhe. aro jNader ami naam jani mukh chinina, mukh chini naam janina, mukh naam dui-i chini tar baire ar kichhu janina, emonki jNader naam mukh konotai chinina, tNarao achhen.

JNara na thakle Abantor-er prolaper aro-i kono mane thakto na. ki bhoyanok byapar hoto bolun dekhi.

Tobe tai bole sob bhule bhese gele cholbe na. samne kothhin somoy. bisheshognora ki bolen janen to? 2 bochhor paar korar porer ei somoytitei naki shoriire-mone nanarokom bicholon ghote. Temper tantrum tunge othhe, achena lok toffee dile nirdwidhay tar pechhon pechhon bohuduur chole jawa jay, nijer khelnay haat dite ele poRshir bachchar chokhe angul dhukiye dewar proboNota dekha dey, restaurant-er high chair-e pa jhuliye bose pasher table taak kore kNata chamoch chhNoRar moto chomotkar idea-o ei somoyei mathay ase.

Kajei apnara seat-belt bNedhe bosun. ami praNpoN cheshta korbo sobkichhu jothasadhyo niyontroNe rakhte. ta sotweo jodi pothe ghono ghono bumper dekha dey, amake eka phele chole jaben na jeno.