Prothom prem
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Ajker bishoy. Prothom prem.
Ba prothom prem niye hype. OVERHYPE.
Prem holo prem. prothombar se jotokhani boka ar kyabla ar uncool, dwitiiyobareo totota, tritiiyobareo tototai. borong tritiiyo prem anek beshi interesting. jemon NyaRar tritiiyo baar beltolay jawa prothom baarer theke anek beshi koutuuholoddipok.
Sobkichhu. sobkichhui practice-e better hoy. prem o byatikrom noy. chorom boka kotha bolar sahos (jemon, tomay chhaRa bNachbona. probhuuto porihaaser shikar ei bakyoti ekhono protiti preme kokhono na kokhono, kono na konobhabe uchharito hoy. hotei hobe.), ekghor loker moddhye sref thNot neRe kotha phone-er oparer loker kachhe pNouchhonor iishwordotto kkhomota, prempotrer bhasha (praktoner opor protishodh nebar er theke bhalo upaay ar nei. bochhor 10 ek por tar paap takei mail kora. mara na geleo, lojjay next 7 din matha tulte parbena guarantee), SMS korar speed, jhogRa korar confidence, sorry na bolar arrogance, sobkichhu.
Tobu prothom prem sobjaygay akaroN gurutwo paay.
Prothom premke glorify korar karoN anekgulo hote pare. ek, jNara ar dwitiiyobaar preme poRe/prem kore uthte parenni tNader ekta obvious incentive to achhei. After all kauke 'tola' ekta dokkhotar byapar. jara poreo preme poRechhen tNara nirghat porobortii premik/a der chaape rakhar jonyo niyomito interval-e prothom premer joygaan kore thaken. prochur bhebeo er theke better kono karoN baar kora amar sadhyer baire.
Atoeb bondhugoN. Mainstream media-r apoprochar hoite sabdhan. prem ekti bishudhho kyablami ebong prothom prem sei kyablamir hNaRikaathe prothombaar matha pete dewa. Label-e 'sworgiiyo' dekhe protarito hoben na. ota nehat bignyaponii gimmick. munafa-lobhii dwitiiyo sreNiir lekhok kobider dhandabaji. prothom prem nitanto mamuli loukik byapar, nyatano, misplaced ebong jontroNadayok.
Amar kintu koyekta differences of opinion ache. Eta thik je phuchka khawa konodino charbo na. kintu prothom prem ta thik kon level e sheta kintu is of importance. As in, if you had a crush and you never really got around to telling him/her how you felt then it's different. You will probably for the rest of your life have a certain softness for that person. But if you were in a relationship for the first time and it didnt work out, oh then god help you, coz you are going to be bitter about it for a long time to come. Especially if he broke up with you.
ReplyDeleteAr eta ekdom thik je prothom prem ke beshi e gurutto dewa hoy, but each time it's amazing(because it's a different guy every time), although amar mone hoy na meyera 'once bitten twice shy'er concept ta bojhe where love is concerned. We end up making the same mistakes.
Amar comment ta to ekta blog post er length hoye geche! hehe
Raka, comment-er size niye somosya nei. More is better. tomar ekta kotha aami sorbantokoroNe somorthon kori. jotobaar preme poRi, totobaari mone hoy erokomti aage aar hoyni. ebong kothay poRechhilam completely bhule gechhi, ei eki logic dhore ke jeno bolechhilen je jotobaari tini ekti notun manusher sathe jounota koren, totobaari tini nijeke virgin bole mone koren.
ReplyDeleteJust bhalo.
Achcha mushkil e fel le tumi. Prothome lobhoniyo adda'r katha shune mushre porechilam ar ekhon abar ei sob perem er goppo shune ki rokom udas udas lagche.
ReplyDeleteTobe sottiy bolte ki ekhon perem korar sujog dileo, kichute i korbo na, nyara ek bar beltala'y geche and that's it. Shomoy pele borong ekti nitol nidra debo
bongmom, ekebare amar moner kotha. prem korar theke ghumono bhalo.
ReplyDeleteJodio ekhono kono meyer sange prem kore uthte parini (aha onyorakom kichhu bhabben na, amar prem holo amar photography, programming, chhobi aanka, lekha likhi ityadir sange) tobuo amar kichhu baktobyo achhe. Amar mone hoy prothom prem ke gurutwo dewar duto karon. Prothomoto, seta ekta notun anubhuti - dwitiyo ba tritiyor theke alada noy, kintu shunyotamor theke alada. Mane prothom cycle chalano, prothom tusharpaat dekha, prothom samudra dekha egulo jemon bishesh smriti, prothom prem o seirakom. Dwitiyobar samudra dekhle ki amra prothombarer theke kom kichhu dekhi? Barong aro bhalo kore dekhi karon chhotokhato details chokhe poRe. Kintu prothombar dekhar je anubhutita, seta ki firey ase?
ReplyDeleteArekta karon holo, amar mone hoy anek khetrei prothom prem ta hoy aporinato boyese, jakhon du pokkhoi khub bhebe chinte prem korena. Bohu bachhor por firey dekhle mone hoy issh, er sathe ami prem-e porechhilam? Ami ki etoi boka chhilam? Sei nijeke boka-boka bhabar anubhutita eRate eta bola hoye thake je ... hNu hNu baba... oita holo giye prothom prem. objectively bichar korle cholbe? or iyei alada... ityadi.
Khub bhalo laglo porte... dekhechhen to... OCD ta ke ignore kore sokal theke khulini, ar ese dekhi already etto comment poRe gechhe!
Sugata, hmmmmmmm. apnar somudrer juktita bhalo. kintu aami pokkhopatdushto kina, tai aapnar dwitiiyo juktita aamar beshi mone dhorechhe. nijei nijeke je case ta khaiyechhilam 15 bochhor boyos-e, setake justify korar aar jokhon kono upaay nei i,tokhon 'prothom' howar jonyo ekta santonwona puroskaar-er byabostha kora hok.
ReplyDeletear amar kintu prothom prem-er sathe kono boiriita nei. aami shudhu mone kori dwitiiyo ba tritiiyo jara hoyechhe se becharader michhimichhi gourob theke bonchito korata bhalo dekhay na.
well someone said that virginity is a state of mind.. in keeping with that.. prothom dwitiyo tritiyo shob guloi ek rokom othoba shob e alada hote pare.
ReplyDelete@ Joy Forever... chheleder kotha jani na kintu meyera 40 bochhor boyesheo bolte pare... ami eke biye korechi, ami ki etoi boka chilam?
it's just human nature, we change and we look at people with different eyes as we change so we feel that the other person has changed as well!! Did I manage to confuse you yet? Abar majhe majhe mone hote pare jar sathey shei prothom prem kore chilam aj jodi tar sathey hotam hoyto aro bhalo hoto. Conjecture er kono seema nei.
Kuntala, boddo heated topic niye likhe felle tumi... bhison moja lagche opinions dite! :)
@Deepanjana: Amar boyes ekhon 28. 40 er por biye kora uchit bolchhen? Ba at least 40+ mohila ke biye kora uchit? Naki tar poreo mind change korte pare? Bhoy dhoriye dilen je!
ReplyDelete@Joy Forever... I am nearly 25 and I married almost 2 yrs ago, if that comment has managed to scare you imagine my situation! ;) Life is fun...take a chance, make a change.
ReplyDeleteasadharoN. Raka, amar ektai kotha bolar achhe. jake pelam na/ je katiye dilo/jake ami katiye diyechhilam/ jake amar best friend pelo, take dekhe hapityes korar bodhoy chhele meye bibhed nei. porostree ebong porpurush dui-i soman akorshoNiiyo.
ReplyDeleteSugata, mind to, change korbei. 40 bNachate parbe na.
kichhu lok abar challenge chhaRa bNachte pare na. maane dhorun prochur effort diye ekjonke 'tola' holo, kintu jei muhurte mission accomplished, mone hoy dhur, e boring. oi loktake pawa gele besh hoto.
seijonyoi bolchhi. chap nebenna. bongmom-er wisdom anusoroN korun. naake tel diye ghumon. prem namok moriichikar pechhone chhute shanti bighnito korben na.
First love may have its essence previously but now a days it has lost its charm quite a bit. Person with lots of sentimental kinda stuffs and loads of free time can lament and write a few lines about his / her first love. Today almost everything is comparable in terms of money or social wealth and love is no more an exception. It is a fact that girls do prefer a lover with a fat purse than a simple/ poor chap who may have lots of creativity inside him. Don't interpret me as a biased. Everything have its exception. Any how its really nice to read such good piece of writing.
ReplyDeleteHave a nice day :)
oh, hi John. Thanks for your compliment. love-ero je abosheshe ekta unit jutlo (money/social wealth) seta love-er soubhagyo boi ar kichhu na. ar meyera je takapoysake creativity-r theke beshi muulyo dey eta tader sustho mostishkeri promaaN. tobe nijer kotha bolte gele,poysawala creative lok amar sobtheke beshi pochhonder.
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