Byaktigoto

'Personal Space' shobdota kintu besh golmele.

Na, inverted comma tomma diye shuru korlam bole emon bhabar karoN nei je ami ebaar 'personal space'wala-der jhheRe kapoR porabo. amio mone praaNe bishwas kori, protiti manusher nijoswo 'bubble' achhe, kane ipod gNuje, baki prithibiitake sei 'bubble'-er baire ghaaRdhakka diye bar kore dewar moulik adhikar achhe. ebong keu gaaye poRe sei 'bubble' fatiiye dite chaile tar 14 purush uddhar korar adhikar-o.

Ami shudhu ektu ghNete jai majhe majhe.

Amader class-e ekti chhele achhe, jar sathe goto 4 bochhore aalap, asfuuto "How're you doing?" othoba thNot tipe ekta mukhobyadan, jeta ultodiker lok pherot dile 'haasi', ar na dile 'ami-to-just-mukhmondoler-exercise-korchhilam'-er beshi egoyni.

Eibela bole rakhi, ini sobar sathei mepe haasen, mepe kotha bolen. eka amake dekhte paren na bole eRiye cholen emon noy.

Tate asubidhe kichhu nei. ami boichitre bishwasii ebong jani, gomRa, gaaye-poRa, golobostro, horekrokom lok na thakle, already boring prithibiita aro boring hoye jeto.

Kintu surprise surprise!!

Udaar bondhur facebook time-e bhag bosiye (jokhon tokhon anyo loker personal space-e kamoR dewar bodobhyes amar achhe), chena lokjoner profile-e ghurte beriye ei gombhiir bondhutir profile-e uposthit hoye amar chokkhu choRokgaachh.

2 periye 3 digit-er ghor chhNuye phela 'friends' list, 'wall'-e comments-er huRohuRi dekhe joto na, tar theke beshi amar bondhutike dekhe.

Naak-chokh-mukh ar naam-dhaam-qualifications chhaRa, sei mukh-tipe-haaslo-kina-bojha-gelo-na loktar songe ei 'happening' byaktitir ar kono mil nei.

Ei lokti ghontay ghontay nijer status message bodlay. prothom ghontay jana gelo, tar aaj advisor-er sathe meeting kirokom foloprosuu hoyechhe (smiley ebong uttejona-prokash kora dhwoni-byanjona soho), dwitiiyo ghontay se likhlo, Friday night se tar bandhobiir sathe kon restaurant-e giye udjapon korte chay. tritiiyo ghontay elo post udjapon bignopti.

HNya, ami tinghontay tinbar tar profile poriikkha korechhi. empirical thesis likhchhi kina, data jogaR korar jonyo ami aro anek kichhu korte raaji achhi, bondhur facebook time kobja kora to tuschu.

Je ami, amake na jigges kore pisemoshaike amar chhobi dekhiyechhilo bole maa-r sathe dudin kotha bolini, sei ami ekta abantor blog khule, amar chhobi theke shuru kore, naam dhaam, pesha, preme byarthota, sober goppo phNede bosechhi.

Shoto shoto lok, jNara sNiRite pasher flat-er loker sathe dekha hole nojor namiye pash katiye jan (na, amishuke bole noy, just joRotay), tNara nijer chhobi, nijer bachchar chhobi, nijer kukurer chhobi, maay nijer modhuchondrimar golapful chhoRano king-size bichhanar chhobi porjonto public forum-e tule dichhen. aboliilakrome.

Jekhane 'screening' bole byaparta just naam-ka-waaste (profile lock korar kotha jodi bolen, come on, ami apnar friend list-er dhaarekachheo nei, kintu kaalkei ami apnar biyer chhobi, ar profile-e lekha kobita poRe hese goRagoRi kheyechhi). Cyber-dushkritokariider kotha jodi bhuleo jai, jodi dhoreo ni je amader chhobi niye keu bhulbhal korbena, tobu keu na keu haasbe, mukh bNyakabe, tachchhilyo korbe, bolbe, "boss, era kara??"

Amader personal space-e dhuke, neRe cheRe, tulyomuulyo bichar kore, ajaachito ebong koRa motamot prokash kore chole jachhe lokkho lokkho lok, protidin, proti muhuurte.

Personal space, I guess, emon kichhuo personal noy.