Role model

Chhotobelay e rogta amar chhilona ba dhora poReni bola bhalo.

Joto boRo hochchhi, nijeke ar mote sojhyo korte parchhi na. keboli mone hoy aha ‘er’ moto hote parle ki bhaloi na hoto. athoba ‘or’ moto hote parleo mondo na.

Kon ekta boite poRechhilam je ekta boyos porjonto, dhorun 10 ba boRojor 11, chhotora naki anek shokto shokto dorshontotwer kotha bujhte pare. anek kothin proshno apni i tader kochi mathay udoy hoy, kichhur uttor tara nijerai baar kore phele, kichhu pare na. bibechonashokti, jeta niya amader boRoder gorber shesh nei, seta sadharoNoto chhotoderi beshi thake dekha geche. kromosho se sob Bangla, Ingreji, Bhuugol, JoRobignan, Itihaser saal tarikher tolay chapa poRe jay. tachhaRao nanarokom apodbalai to achhei. Talent Hunt, Bangla Band, Unish KuRi.

Ami chhotobelay darshonik chhilam kina ekebarei mone nei, tobe ekhonkar theke dher beshi bhalo ar subibechok chhilam. ashtoprohor anyo karo moto hote chaitam na. ekhonkar ei atripto, porosriikator, youtube-grosto Kuntalake dekhle sei Kuntala je “chho” bole duyo dito se niye amar kono sondehoi nei.

Je kotha hochchhilo, role model khNoja. nijer moto ami ekebarei hote chaina, kajei ekta role model amar abilombe dorkar. ami enar moto dekhte hobo, onar moto chalak kotha bolte parbo, tNar moto amar agoNito bhokto hobe, na hole ar bNeche labh ki bolun?

Apnar sondhane bhalo role model thakle janaben to amake.

Ami nijeo khNojakhuji chaliye jachchhi aboshyo. bastober maatite jNara hNete chole beRachchhen tNader role model korar mushkil hochhe, tNara sobai amar theke eto beshi buddhiman, eto beshi poRashona korechhen, gobhiir ebong kajer kothar etoi uchchomarge tNader anayas bichoroN, tar opor tNara sobai amar theke eto beshi bhalo dekhte, je tNader role model banale sokal bikel na-hote-parar lojja aro beshi jNakiye bosbe mathar bhetor.

Already bejay kharap achhi, real life theke role model tule ene se jontroNa diirghayito korar amar kono shokh nei bishwas korun.

Kajei golper boi khule boste holo. chhoto theke boRo bela porjonto joto nayika, sohonayika, mohila parshwochoritro der sathe molakat hoyechhe, sobar mukh ekek kore mone korte laglam, aNtipati kore tader choritrer chiruni tollashi nite laglam, jodi amar role model-er sondhan mele.

Se ashay chhai poRte deri holo na. dekhlam sobai ‘anyorokom’. sadharoN chehara hole ‘byaktitwo’ phete poRchhe, ar byaktitwer dohai jader nei, tader sokoleri traffic thamiye dewar moto chehara. anyorokom byaktitwomoyii ebong somajer mukhe nuRo jwele dewa mohiyosiider bhiRe poth hariye se procheshtay agotya chhaRan dite holo.

Tokhoni ekjoner kotha mone poRlo. dekhte suruupa non, byaktitwo achhe bote, kintu seta ekebarei subidher noy. maane enake dekhe dudondo bose kotha bolte chawar theke, goli paltanor ichchhetai probol hoye uthhbe.

Exactly enakei ami khNujchhilam. sobaike besh chomke rakhte parle mondo hoy na, ki bolen? 'Victim syndrome'-e bhuge bhuge ami klanto. kono jhogRay somoymoto protyuttor dite na para, ebong tarpor saradin mathar moddhye sei kothopokothon-er replay chaliye, kon jaygay amar ki bola uchit chhilo, next baar prosongo ta uthhle ami kirokom jogyo jobab diye aporpokkher thNota mukh nimeshe bhNota kore debo....ei anonto loop theke jodi ek bojrohunkare amake keu baar kore ante paren, tobe ini i parben.

Byaktitwoi jodi chai, tobe sref bhuru kNuchke takale goru duder bodole tindin dhore doi debe, emon byaktitwer sadhona korai bhalo.

Ami Podipisi-ke role model hisebe bechhe niyechhi. amar pochhonder proti apnar somorthon janan.

Apni kar moto hote chan?

(jNara nijeder moto hote chan, tNader uttor dewar dorkar nei, akaroN complex-e ami bhugte chaina)