January 06, 2012

Crucial 2012


Notun bochhor poRar por theke Bantir patta nei. sei je 31st December sheshraate adda bhenge ga mochRata mochRate “shute jai bujhle” bole nijer baRir dike rowna dilo, tarpor theke taar tikiti dekha jachchhena. amra dudin dekhe, tindiner din sthaniiyo haspatale khNoj-toj niye sheshmesh choturthodin Chiruke thelethule library-te pathalam.
Bola jay na. Resolution-er season bole kotha.
Ja bhaba tai. Chiru ese dNat baar kore khobor dilo, “giye dekhi 5 tolar sobtheke koNer ghortay, print out-er pahaR side-e soriye jayga kore, table-e thyang tule babu mukh hNaa kore ghumochchhen.” tai dekhe Chiru jei na ekkhana article-er prothom pata chhNiRe sei hNaa kora mukhe ghNuje diyechhhe, dhoRmoRiye uthe Banti oke ei mare to sei mare. ghumiye ghumiye naki ekkhana durdhorsho paper-er idea esechhilo mathay, seta kNechiye dewar jonyo.
Amra sommilito diirghoshwas phele bollam, “bhagyis idea-ta kNeche gelo, noile jodi tui paper likhe bikhyato hoye jetis, Nobel peye jetis, ar tarpor amader patta na ditis, amra kothay jetam bol dekhi?” Banti gomRamukh aro gomRa kore bollo, “yarki na boss, ei yearta hebby crucial.”
Omni sobbar dhNaa kore mone poRe gelo, ei bochhorta amader sokoler jonyoi kii bhoyanok crucial. Career, personal growth, biye, bahchakachcha, art of living, somosto dik theke. joddin bNachbo, 2012-er bhuumika amader jiibone abismoroNiiyo hoye thakbe.
Ebochhor ja ja hobena, segulo ar e jonme howar asha nei. ja ja hobe, bhalo hole jiibone dwitiiyobar ar tar punorabritti ghotbe na, kharap hole tar kolongkochinho kopale sNete ghure beRate hobe. aamoroN.
Maa sekotha already mone koriye diyechhen amay, “shudhu ei bochhorta Sona, shudhu ei bochhorta.”
Amar mamato bon, jar biye thik hoyechhe office-er kaje nityi Italy-Paris-Honolulu kora jhingchyak paatrer sathe, seo amake sodupodesh diyechhe, “ebochhorei ekta kichhu namiye dao Sonadidi, er por too late hoye jabe.”
Too late. amader moto jara premhiin fyafya kore ghurchhe tader prem pawar, jara chakri pachchhena tader chakri pawar, jader chakri hoyechhe kintu biye hoyni tader biye howar, jader biye hoyechhe kintu bachcha hoyni tader bachcha howar.
2012 jader helay boye jabe tara sheshni:shwas phela porjonto protimuhuurte haat kamRabe, anutape jorjorito hobe. konodin nijeder kkhoma korte parbe na.
2012, hebby crucial.
Thik jemon protyekta bochhor hoye aschhe amar, sei 1997 theke.
1997 keno jigges korchhen? 1997 amar jiiboner prothom crucial bochhor, Madhyamik. Madhyamik. Madhyamike bhalo result na hole ki hoy seta nishchoy apnader kholsa kore bole dite hobe na amay? Science pabenna, Joint-e bosa hobena, IIT to bhulei jan, kheyepore bNachar moto chakri pabenna, meye hole dami bor ar chhele hole phorsa bou jutbena.
Tarporeo bNeche theke labh achhe bolte chan?
Kirokom bolir pNathar moto kNapte kNapte Madhyamik dite gechhilam mone poRle ekhono sei laalphite bNadha, choshma pora kochi meyetar jonyo maya hoy amar. etokichhur por jokhon marksheet niye ekgaal hese baRi phirchhi riksha chepe, ekjon sohridoy protibeshii gaye poRe amake sei mokkhom bhobishyodbaNiiti shuniye dilen.
“Madhyamik? chhoh, dhore nao ei sobe nirokkhor theke sakkhor hole. asol khela to eibar shuru hobe.”
Jana gelo UchchoMadhyamik-tai crucial. jotodin bNachbo totodiner jonyo.
Thik jemon B.Sc.-r tinte bochhor, Masters, Ph.D., job market-e jawar bochhorgulo. o hNya, biyer bochhortar kothao bhulle cholbe na. otao crucial. In fact, otai.
Esob bole Bantike gnan debo bhabchhilam. labh nei. or boyosta ekhono boddo kom, bujhte parbena. kintu amar kina chul peke gechhe, ami kina sms-e h2cus dekhe matha chulkoi, tai ami ei bhNaota-ta abosheshe dhore phelechhi. ‘Crucial year’-er myth-ta bust kore phelechhi sheshmesh.
Ar tai buk phuliye bolchhi, apnader kachhe hoy hok, amar kachhe 2012 crucial noy. sotyi bolte ki crucial bochhorder ek diigho mohamichhiler ante 2012 amar kachhe sei prothom bochhor jokhon amar ar kichchhu korar nei. shudhu ja ja korechhi etodin, tar phol bhog korar bochhor eta amar. naker samne jholano je gajorer pechhone chhutechhi etodin honye hoye, abosheshe sei gajorer full-fat halua baniye, payer opor paa tule bose sei halua khawar bochhor.
Tobe ami jehetu lok kharap noi, apnader sobar sob crucial kaajkormer jonyo amar shubhokamona roilo. All the best. mon theke.

10 comments:

  1. tahole tomar janne 2012 is "year of eating fruits (or gajor) of (erstwhile) labor"...setao kom crucial noy :-))))

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  2. jah Shampa, sei tumi amay crucial-er chokkore phele dile? Sad. tobe thik-i bolechho hoyto, porishromer (ba phNakibajir) phol bhog koratao joruri.

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  3. Oi jjah! ami shurur dikta poRe bhablum je bolbo amaro 2012 ta khub crucial, tarpor shesh dikta poRe amar prioritiesgulo sob ghNete gelo!

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  4. are Sugata, priorities achhei ghNatbar jonyo. chinta korbenna.

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  5. aha darun! tobe kash bantir moto amio ghumiye sopner modhye ekta paper er idea petam go! ish, hingse hoche :(

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  6. shubhokamona roilo.. gajorer halua khub enjoy koro.... (weight na barie e.. ) :D

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  7. Ishh onek deri hoye gyalo! Tomakeo bhishon happy new year Kuntala di :) Crucial? hobe hoyto? ami aar matha ghamai na. emni korei chole jachche, emni korei chole jabe. chokher samne madhyamik e lobodonka paoader tortor kore prem korte, aay korte dekhlam, karur i kichchu bigrolo na, sutoraNg, kono bhoy nei bujhle! Sab ho jayega :)

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  8. Atreyee, tumio jemon, Bantir kothay bishwas korle. o ja bole tar 3 bhag jol, 1 bhag sthol. swopne paper peyechhe na hati. sob goppo.

    Gobechara, sei. ki jwala bolo dekhi. aram kore gajorer halua khabo tar jo nei, abar ojon-o baRbe. joghonyo.

    Sumana, deri kiser? amader year amra jotodin khushi take new bolbo, kaar ki. tomakeo belated shubhokamona. notun bochhore sob bhalo hok. matha na ghamanotai best strategy. ja hochchhe hote dao. ar exactly, premer bajarei to bikote hobe sheshmesh, madhyamik or no madhyamik. bhalo result or no bhalo result. kajei beshi nomborer pechhone chhota kebol begar khatuni.

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  9. eki ami ki kichu miss kore gelam ? Kar biye holo ? ke chakri pelo ? Ke halwa khelo ? Ke gajor piada korlo ? kobe notun bochor holo ?

    Ei jah....Protyek ta notun din jate khub sundor kate tomar Kuntala.Bochor e kiba hoy...calendar ta porjonto kena hoyni.

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  10. Thank you Bong Mom. apnaro notun bochhor bhalo katuk.

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