March 11, 2012

Saapholyer secret


Ajker Abantorer anupreroNa Rahul Dravid.

Bhul bhabchhen, ami Rahul Dravid-er fan noi, chhilam-o na konodin. tini jokhon Bharater hoye prothom mathhe naamchhilen bat haate, alpo jogging korte korte pitch-er dike egochchhilen, helmet-er phNak diye ghaR ghuriye mepe nichchhilen juddhokkhetre shotrupokkher abosthan, je juddhokkhetre porer 16 bochhor tNake tNike thakte hobe, tokhon amar sodyo sweet sixteen. Hormone tunge. tobu tokhono ami amar koyekjon classmate-er moto khoborer kagoj, magazine, potrika theke Rahuler chhobi kete kete ghormoy sNatini. sNete dewaler cholta tule diye babar kaanmola khaini.  kanmola kheye “amake tumi chhaRa keu bojhe na” bole se chhobi buke chepe ashtoprohor fNyachfNyach-o korini. bishesh kore ei chhobita. 

Naaah. Not my type. amar borabor bhalo chheleder bhalolage. anekta eirokom.

Kingba etao cholte pare.

Serechhe, buRo boyose ki notun kore fan-roge dhorlo naki? chhobi tanganor dhum dekhe nijer-i kemon kemon sondeho hochchhe. eibela prosongo palte phela jak maane maane. bhaloy bhaloy.

Asole ajker bishoyta thik Rahul Dravid non. tNar abosorgrohoN-o noy. emonki tNar mapa, nirlipto, ‘feelings’-biborjito athocho souhardyopuurNo bidaykaliin boktritao noy. tNake borNona korte giye beshirbhag blog, khoborer kagoj, aro nananrokom protibedon ityadite je shobdota byabohar kora hochchhe barongbar, sei shobdota niye aj ami uttejito.  

Self effacing.

Aro beshi uttejito karoN shobdota emon kore byabohar kora hochche, jeno seta khub ekta bhalo kichhu. Self effacement jeno ekta mostoboRo guNer byapar. choritre ota thakte hoy. noile loke kharap bole.

Ki bhayanok chokranto bhabun dekhi! notun projonmoke bhul pothe chalito korar ki nyakkarjonok procheshta!

Online abhidhane dekhlam lekha achhe self-effacement maane hochchhe, the act or fact of keeping oneself in the background, as in humility. arthat kina soja Banglay amra jake binoy boli. bidyar sathe jeta aapse ase. ba aasto ekkale.

Sob-i bujhlam, kintu eta bhulle cholbe na je ekhon jug bodlechhe. binoy, bhodrota, soujonyo esob pragoitihasik hoye gechhe bohudin. ogulo dhuye ajkal ar keu jol khay na. sotyi kotha, khele choleo na. eta aggression-er jug. ar attitude-er. “Stay hungry” ejuger slogan. lokkhyer pothe je badhai asuk na keno take taan mere upRe phela ekaler broto. sobaike thhele samne aaste hobe. nijer kotha nije jorgolay sposhto bhashay “communicate” korte hobe. chNihi golay biRbiRole cholbe na. Attitude chai, attitude. 

Sobtheke boRo kotha nijeke jodi nijei bhalo na boli, anyo keu bolbe keno? ami jodi na bishwas kori ami sokoler sera, anye korbe keno? baba maa-i jodi nijer chhelemeyeke "bhiishooooN smart ar intelligent" na bolen tobe ki paRapoRshite bolbe? swamii stree-i jodi eke oporke "best" ar "kindest" ar "most sensitive person alive" khetab na den, tobe ki ajana achena loke debe? tader ki kheye deye ar kaaj nei?

Sesob mathay rekhei dhundhumar ekta self appraisal likhechhilam. likhetikhe nijei mohito hoye gechhilam. ghuriyephiriye dekhchhilam baarbaar. kirokom buddhi khatiye ekkhan kaajke shotokhan kore likhechhi! kirokmo kaayda kore ekta idea-r mathay ek ekrokom porchula poriye nobo nobo ruupe take bajare chaliyechhi! nijer naamer pashe hard-working, productive, efficient, useful, ityadi bachhabachha bisheshoN sajiyechhi dhore dhore! emon sajiyechhi je nijer chokhei dhNadha lege jachchhe. 

Eta ami? eto kaaj korechhi ami ek bochhore!

Appraisal-ta send kore dibbi furfure mejaje bose bose paa dolachchilam, aapel khachchilam, emon somoy ei 'self effacing'-er mugur mathay ese poRlo. hothat dekhi sobai sur bodle gaite legechhe, "dekhechho, ekei bole bhodrolok. chup kore nijer mone nijer kaaj kore gechhen. Networking-er bodole nijer kkhomota ar protibhar jore saapholyer shiirshe uthhechhen."

Mukher bodole bat chaliyei sob ninduker bolti bandh korechhen. 

Hothat dekhchhi sobar mone poRechhe je khide, loRai, chNachachhola, killer instinct-- egulo bhalo kotha hote pare, kintu dignity, nirolos porishrom, pholer aasha na rekhe kormo kore jawa, sohokormiider proti somman prodorshon--- esob-o phelna noy. borong jeno arektu beshi bhalo.

Nijei nijer dhak petanor moddhye ekta kirokom boka boka byapar achhe na? akashe chNad uthle to sobai dekhbei. na dekhe ki thaka jay? thekechhe keu kokhono?

Bujhun kando. esob amar appraisal-ta joma dewar aage mone chhilona karo? joghonyo. 

Kintu ami bhulchhi na. ami jani eta kkhoNiker hujug. sref arekta hype. Rahul Dravid-er abosorer khoborta headline theke sore gelei sobai abar bemalum bhule mere debe je self effacing howar sathe successful howar kono bibad nei. abar attitude ar aggression swomohimay aabirbhuuto hobe. abar holla kore nijer dhak nijei petate lege jabe sobai. 

Atoeb appraisal niye ar afshosh korchhi na. phataphati likhechhi ami. In fact self appraisal lekha niye apnader karo tips lagle amar kachhe cheye dekhte paren. e byapare amar theke bhalo lok ar paben na. Guarantee.

12 comments:

  1. Ami ektu Rahul Dravid er byapare boli. Amio jibone konodin or fan chhilam na. In fact ami Aravinda de Silva chhara ar kono cricketer eri fan chilam na kokhono. Dravid khelto mondo na, kintu or retirement niye lokjon ja shuru koreche, specifically facebook e, tai dekhe ga jole gelo! Barabari ar kake bole? Retire koreche, bhalo hoyeche. Apod biday hoyeche. Manush ke ar Dravid er 100 ball e 0 run dekhte hobe na. Ki bore korechilo amader Eden er ekta test match e. Run ar korei na, korei na. Sesh e hotat dekhi sobai uthe dariye hattali dichhe, keno dichhe kichui bujhlam na, amio uthe dariye hattali dilam. Tarpor didi ba kakabhai keu ekta bollo, "are Dravid er to 100 ball khela holo!" Sedin 13 kore out hoyechilo o :-)
    Appraisal er katha ar bolona! Ja mathay esheche likhechi fapiye fapiye. Tarpor lead ke bole eshechi "ar likhte parchi na, ebar tomra ja bhalo bojho koro!" :D

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    1. baba Sayari, ami to tv-te cricket dekhte bosei ghumiye poRi, tumi abar sahos kore mathhe giyechhile? Appraisal niye amio nakanichobani khachchhi edike deadline chhute chhute egiye aschhe, joghonyo.

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  2. Hehe, na go Eden Gardens e khela dekhar ekta alada moja ache. Tobe ha, test match boddo boring lage. One day match byapok lage. Ami to soda'r bottle diye seat er back rest e mere mere drum o bajiyechi :D Ar tachhara amar hero ke sakhyat korar sujog peyechilam to okhanei...aha se ki half century, dekhar moto :-)

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    1. hmm, tumi utsahii khela-dekhiye bujhte parchhi Sayari.

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  3. aare ekhon jugtai holo "nijo dhak etc". kaajei....:-)))

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  4. eta reea ekdom thik bolechhe... rahul dravid sebar amader boddo bore korechhilo... ami motei active khela-dekhiye noi.. tao oi holla kortei gechhilum, giye boddo bore hoechhilum.. So.. no comment about rahul dravid.. fan ra dukhho paben na.. ami khelar bishesh kichhu bujhina.. :D

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    1. haha, giye bored hoyechhile swiikar korchho to Sohini? amio hotam. Borer hoddo hotam. ato duur theke eke to kissu dekha jay na, tarmoddhye gorom, roddur, holla, ki je sukh paay loke ke jane.

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  5. Ami ei kathata bolbo bolbo koreo kotthao bolte na pere hNapiye uthchhilam, je Dravid ni:sandehe great player, kintu taar retirement niye eto nachar ki achhe? Retire jeno ar keu konodin koreni? Steve Jobs mara jawar poreo jemon shudhumatro public er samobedona dekhei loktar opor chote uthechhilam, ebareo bhoy hochchhe sheshe taai na hoy.

    Tobe apni motei ei sab hujuge kaan deben na. Eta nijer dhaak nije petabari juug. Dravid er nahoy dhak petabar lok achhe Facebook e, amader to nei. Kajei amra jato aggressively self-promoting appraisal likhbo tatoi bhalo.

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    1. thik bolechhen Sugata. ami Dravid hole amar appraisal-o anyoloke likhto, ar amio khub mohan haabbhab kore ghure beRate partam.

      Appraisal-khana ja namiyechhi na! 'how to write self appraisal' Google kore, jekhane joto tips peyechhi sob chaliyechhi. er poreo jodi maine na baRe tahole ar kichhu bolar nei.

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  6. "Dravid" er byapare kichuchu bolte parbo na, ami Ravi Shastri'r Polar fan er jug er lok. Kintu tomar byapare fan club khulte ek paay raaji. Khub bhalo onyer dhaak petate pari ami. Sottiy bolchi.

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    1. haha Bong Mom, polar fan-i bote. amader school-er Somdatta Salman Khaner bhoyanok fan chhilo. amra oke khyapatam, "tui ceiling na table fan re?" bole.

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