Naam

Naam.
Ki guruttopurNo ekta byapar ekjoner jeebone. othocho jar naam, puro decision making process tay taar kono bhuumikai nei.
Se aboshyo anek kichhutei nei. keno "The Stepping Stone" er bodole "Sotyobharotee Shishuteertho", keno 'Famous Five' er bodole 'Tuntunir boi', keno rock and roll er bodole 'ei kuule aami aar oi kuule tumi' ei sob proshner kono uttor nei. kintu ei sob proshner theke naam-er proshongo ta je anek beshi serious seta ati boRo chhyablao sweekar korbe.
Anyo lokeder naam niye poRbaar aage bole rakha bhalo aamar nijer naamta aamar ektuo pochhondo noy. Prothomoto, aamar naamer kono mohot tatporjopurNo artho nei (adou kono maane aachhe kina setao aamar sondeho). Aparajita, Maitreyee, Srutismrita (jini ekbaar shunei gota choturbed konthostho kore phelen) r moto gurugombheer naam othoba Moutusi, Rimjhim, Tapurtupur-er moto mishti, cute naam bhabar moto koshto aamar naamkoroN-kortripokkho korenni. chepe dhorle bolen, kothay kobe ekti modhubhashinee, mriduhaasinee, mondogaminee meyeke dekhechhilen, promptly taar naamta tuke aamar opor chaliye diyechhen. ebong nijeder tokatuki-te ektuo lojja pawa to duure thak, ulte tara nijeder duurodrishtite bhayanok impressed hoye giye bolte thaken, bhagyis naamta rakha hoyechhilo, naamer guuNei khanikta rokkha hoyechhe. na hole poriNoti ki hoto bhabtei tNara shiure shiure othen.
Naam na pochhondo howar dwiteeyo karoN holo, aamar naam-er ekta obvious 'Podmolochon' effect aachhe. jeta somporke aami ekkhuni bishod kore kichhu bolte chaina.
Jaak, bibekdongshon-er sombhabona katiye diye ebaar nishchinte anyo lokeder naam niye alochona shuru kora jete pare. podobee-r sathe rong miliye naam rakhar kono dorkar nei maanchhi, kintu etuku aasha kora jetei paare, je baba maa-r podobee Mallik, tNara meye-r naam Mallika rakhben na. othoba jNader podobee Thakur, tNara chhele-r naam Rabindranath. ebong hNya, Mallika Mallik aamader du class niche poRto, aar Rabindranath Thakur aamader Post Office-er boRobabu chhilen.
Anek kkhetre aabar pitripurush-er sathe miliye bachchader naam rakhar ekta rewaj thake. ebong boltei hochhe ei byaparta beshi kaaj kore poribaar-er purush bongshodhor-der moddhye. Kalishankar, tosyo putro Rudrashankar, tosyo putro Subhronshankar hameshai dekha jay. tobe ei chhaya-abolombone naam rakhar ekti koruN poriNoti aami aamar nijer lotaay-paataay somporker moddhyei protyokkho korechhi. Shashanko, Mriganko-r por jokhon prochur matha chulkeo kichhu pawa gelona, tokhon aamar unsuspecting, debshishu-r moto dekhte pistuto bhai-tir naam rakha holo Aatonko. tama-tulsee chhNuye bolchhi. Seriously. tin sotyi. aamader poribaar-er bagha bagha niyom-bhanga rebel sodosyora bachchatir baba maa-r eheno sahos dekhe stombhito hoye giyechhilen. kaaro kaaro mathay Aatonko-r substitute hisebe Utonko naamta esechhilo. kintu aamar byaktigoto mot, Utonko-r cheye Aatonko better. aar sotyi kotha bolte ki, aamar bhai-tir je rokom haabbhaab, tate se sarthoknama hobe bolei aamar bishwas.
Daaknaam aar ekta issue jekhane aamader aaro anek beshi sotorko howa uchit. baba maa-ra, aapnara jokhon jekhane sekhane, rasta ghate, bhiR minibus ebong Howrah station-e, biyebaRi ebong boimela prangoNe daaknaam dhore chNechiye daakben-i, tokhon please seta bachhar somoy aar ektu jotnobaan hon. sodyo gNopher rekha uthte shuru kora kono chhele 'Babusona' daake pechhon phire takate chay na. ebong ekti halter-neck sushobhita kishoree-ke prokashye 'Ghunti' bole daakle tar moner opor je psychological trauma srishti kora hoy, tate first world-er kanun-e etodin-e aapnader komore doRi poRto.
Sheshe koyekta nehaat-i baaje goppo diye aajke raater moto abantor boka shesh kori. goppo bolchhi bote kintu aamar bondhura claim korechhe egulo diner aalor thekeo beshi sotyi. sedin ke ekta bollo tar ekti porichito meye-r naam naki 'Neel Akasher Chotto Pakhi'. Exactly. Impossible. tar kotha shune aar ekjon bollo tader college-e naki ekti meye poRto jaar naam 'Elena Kole'.
Naam paltanoy bistor hyapa. aami bhabchhi borong bondhu circle-ta change kori.