GoNobhojon
Networking, jiibondharoNer jonyo nishwas newar thik porei jar gurutwo, tar angsho hisebe kichhu kichhu 'Happy Hour'- e jawar abhignota hoyechhe amar. uddyeshota holo, Friday night-e sobai mile paanbhojon kore bonding ebong contacts (actually, shudhu contacts) baRano. Idea ta dibbi, tobe amar definition-er happiness-er sathe tar kono duursomporker aatmiiyotao nei.
Chhotobelay chhade maayer shaaRi taangiye feast (bolte giye bujhlam, shobotar sathe kotodin bade dekha holo abar) amar prothom goNobhojoner smriti. chNada bolte chhotoder matha pichhu 5 taka, ar boRoder 10 taka. se chNaday ki khawa hoyechhhilo seta kichhui mone nei, kintu baagane maa jethhira bose ranna korchhilo, ar chhotora laphiye jhNapiye moha utsahe kaak taRachhilo, ar sob miliye ki bhiishoN moja hoyechhilo, seta siki shotabdii poreo sposhto mone achhe.
Amader paRay aboshyo bochhorer bNadha besh kichhu din goNobhojoner jonyo dhaarjo chhilo. DolpuurNimar raat tader moddhye smritite sobtheke beshi ujjwol. sara sokal dupur dhore thyalagaRi kore baRi baRi theke chal dal ar chNada jogaR kora hoto. raate mondirer chatal-e line diye bose khichuri, dimbhaja ar bNode. samanyo khawa, asamanyo fuurti. shudhu jara sokale rong makhate deyni tader samanyo sotorko thakar byapar chhilo. pant-er pocket ar shaaRi aNchol, ar oRnar tolaay lukono abiir-er packet, shampoo kora mathar opor neme aste parto jokhon tokhon. ar khete khete hothat current chole gele paat theke dimbhaja haapis hoye jawar ghotonao kichhu amil chhilona.
School-e Soroswotii pujor khawao arekta important goNobhojon. ekbochhor, amader ponkti-r sheshe ekjon pagol ese bose, prosad theke shuru kore chaatni porjonto kheyechhilen. tini kichhui asubidhe korchhilenna, kajei tNake baRon korar kono karoN chhilona. sebochhor khawar anonder sathe chapa kii hoy, kii hoy bhab mile baaRti uttejonar srishti korechhilo.
Amar jiiboner asonkhyo apuurNo saadher moddhye ekta holo, Matador chepe hindi gaan bajate bajate Folta-y picnic korte jawa. protyek bochhor poyla January amader baRir samne diye gaaRi bhorti kore jawa ullosito picnic party-der janalar epaar theke trishito chokkhe dekhte dekhtei amar bela boye gelo.
ShaaRi taangiye feast ar shotoronchi pete lal-holud bNode khawar boyos chole gechhe anekdin. buRoboyoser goNobhojoner bhalonaam potluck. ei boyoser baki sob abhignotar motoi ja rongchota, fyakashe, 'oi-arki'. hnya, thanda khichuRi-nyatano beguni ar saturated fat-e jobjobe bNode, homemade dahivada, mutton biryani, microwave kNalakaad-er samne lojjay matha tulte parbe na. khete bose dimbhaja samlano ar kon baRir meye kon baRir chheler sathe prem korchhe se kechchha fisfisiye pNachkaan korar sathe, wine ar Coke zero-r glass haate desher dosher alochonar tulonao, anyay. apadomostok anyay.
Akritogno buRoboyos, esob bhule se ekhono pechhoner dike lubdhodrishtite takiye thake.
Feast? Amra to boltum "feasti." Tobe ami UP te manush hoyechhi kina... ei byapargulor sange thik sebhabe porichito noi. Shudhu Saraswati pujoy bhog khetam Bharat Sevasram Sanghe, ar Durga Pujor Nabamir bhog khetam paRar pujo pandel e. Pujoy Hooghly te eleo paRay bhog khawa hoto. Ar babar bondhu-bandhobera miley kimba amader kaka-pisira miley duyekbar chhade kimba bagane feasti-o korechhi, sesab er smriti firiye anlen apni. Motei ekhonkar "pot-luck" sei goNobhojon er sange palla dite parena.
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